Not Wanting To Be Rude So You Ask Someone Else To Be Rude For You

Hey you guys so I like to hangout at the Speed Dating And Singles-Non. One thing I hate about it is when someone like likes you and they (keep in mind your not a mean person)  ask you out and you don't wanna date them. I usually ask someone I don't know or do know to answer them. Im not a rude person so...... thats a reason why I sorta dont like Speed Dating